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Visitation at Funeral Home
4:00 pm - 7:30 pm
Friday, April 11, 2025
Preston Funeral Home
153 South Orange Ave
South Orange, New Jersey, United States
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7:30 pm
Friday, April 11, 2025
Preston Funeral Home
153 South Orange Ave
South Orange, New Jersey, United States

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Jaime lit a candle
Tuesday, April 15, 2025
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I miss you every moment of every day my love. You were home to me. I will try to put one foot in front of the other and live a life you would be proud of. Until we meet again, I carry your soul with me, ❤️
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Carragh Coletti posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 15, 2025
My heart hurts for everyone in Tom’s beautiful life. Such a beautiful soul who was so patient and so kind. I met Tom through work, where he humbly showcased his talent and willingness to help everyone be successful. His kindness was felt by all. I can only hope that sharing beautiful memories of Tom will provide some comfort during the days ahead. My sincerest condolences to his family, friends, and colleagues.
Carragh Coletti
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Lisa K lit a candle
Sunday, April 13, 2025
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Dear Jaime, Tom’s family and Friends,
My heartfelt condolences on this sudden loss. Always remember the love and fond memories you all shared with Tom. May his memory be for a blessing. Rest in peace.
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Friday, April 11, 2025
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I had the privilege to work with Tom and because his birthday coincided with an annual company meeting to celebrate his birthday. Tom represented not only what you hope for in a colleague (intelligent, dedicated, team-player) but also in a human being (compassionate, welcoming, trustworthy, and a great sense of humor). We are gonna miss you dearly, Tom, and will never forget you. Rest in peace my friend.
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Michael Bradley lit a candle
Friday, April 11, 2025
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Dearest cousin Jaime and family,
Words cannot express my deepest sympathies for your tragic loss. I hope and pray for healing and peace to you and your loved ones today and always. Please know my heart is with you.
A thousand blessings on the journey ahead.
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Meredith Makowski uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, April 10, 2025
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Dear Jaime and Family,
I am so heartbroken of this unimaginable sudden passing of Tom. He truly was one of my most favorite coworkers and friends. He is forever so kind and caring and really funny.
From the moment I joined this Virology team, Tom was always willing to help and give amazing advice, or be up for a great vent session. I feel so blessed that I got to spend the week in Grand Cayman last May with Tom and Jaime. It was a week filled with lots of laughs and amazing memories . I always picked up the phone whenever Tom called or texted. I feel so fortunate I got to catch up with him last Friday.
My memories of him will always warm my heart and put a smile on my face . I love that I was fortunate to meet Jaime too since it made Tom’s endless heartfelt stories of her so much more real . My deepest condolences to all of you. Tom is already missed so much. But I believe that he will forever be by all our sides smiling down upon us. My thoughts and prayers, love and strength to Jaime and your entire family!
Xoxo Meredith
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Hannah Sorkin posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
Dear Jaime and Tom’s entire family, I am so very sorry for your inestimable loss. I am one who knew of Tom through Jaime. All I heard was of his kindness, his patience, his strength, his good will and good humor, of his love. I know he loved and was loved deeply, and that that is the whole point.
I pray that Tom’s memory will be a blessing to you always.
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Wednesday, April 9, 2025
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Tom always had a smile on his face and was always so friendly and willing to chat. Tom and I would chat about the Eagles. Tom’s passion for his career and knowledge of data and numbers was so admirable. I was lucky to be on Toms trivia team this summer at our national meeting and it was fun to see his competitive side, he was quite the trivia whiz. We will miss you Tom.
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Steve & Ginny Bradley uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
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Dear Jaime and your entire family,
We are so deeply sorry and saddened for your tragic loss of Thomas. Thomas exuded kindness with his warm, beautiful smile. You could see the deep Love that Thomas and Jaime shared together.
May you find comfort in your precious memories that you will forever hold in your heart. May you feel GOD's presence, peace and love. May the love of family and friends help comfort you during this difficult time.
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
With our Deepest Sympathy and Love,
Aunt Ginny & Uncle Steve
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Rhonda Levin posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
When I think of Tom, his smile immediately comes to mind. He was such a warm, kind man who was always ready to help and support those around him. It was a true privilege to have worked with Tom; his love of Jaimie was evident in the stories he would share. My thoughts and prayers are with Jaimie and the family at this very difficult time. May his memory be a comfort to you all.
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CATHY DOWD posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
I knew of Tom's beautiful spirit and kindheartedness through his loving wife Jaime who shared with me about the incredibly strong bond they had with eachother. I am so sad their life together has been cut short. Sending condolences to his family and all who knew him.
With much love,
Cathy Dowd
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Wendy Buzzeo posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
To my dearest Jaime and the entire family,
My family and I are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express how much you are in our thoughts at this time. We loved Tom through Jaime, and the wonderful stories she told of him. Thank you for showing us these beautiful photos of him. Our deepest condolences. Love, Wendy and Mike Buzzeo
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Kimberly Kaloz posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
Toms warm smile and kindness brightened any room. He will be sorely missed by all his Merck colleagues who he had an impact on. Wishing all of his family strength and peace in this most difficult time.
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Wednesday, April 9, 2025
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Tom, Wes, and I began our journey with Merck together exactly four years ago. We have had the gamut of growing pains and much laughter and experiences.
Tom - it has been one the greatest honors of my life to have you as a friend and colleague. You were always present, calm, measured. Loved it when I made you laugh ! So enjoyed your stories, especially the ones you shared about Jaime. You surprised me constantly with your many facets. You possessed the highest form of character, integrity , and compassion. You will always be with us and never ever forgotten. Truly the embodiment of a great guy.
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Judy Witzig posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
My life was blessed through your friendship, Tom. You challenged me to step outside my comfort zone as PSA PARTNERS. I am truly grateful for the time we had together….May you be blessed in the next life, my friend, as I was in this one by knowing you.
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Wednesday, April 9, 2025
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I will cherish the time Tom showed me the “ropes” of navigating through the NYC train station. Tom was a wonderful colleague and will be missed so much by his entire work family. Every conversation with Tom include mentioning something about his wife and his cats. He beamed with pride about his loved ones. Rest in peace, Tom.
Stephanie DePasquale, work colleague.
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Kate Martens posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 9, 2025
I was honored to have the privilege to get to know Tom and to work with him. He was such a dedicated and kind man with an infectious smile. I’m so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed.

A Memorial Tree was planted for Thomas Brill IV
Monday, April 7, 2025
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Jacob A Holle Funeral Home
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