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Margie Tierney posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family Rick. What a lovely photo. I am astonished at your resemblance to her. I am certain you have many wonderful memories of her to share with her grandson, Brian. We pray you find strength during this most difficult time.
Love,
Cousins Margie and Jack Tierney
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Todd Kurland posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
I believe my first memory of Marion would have to be the red hand towels in Rick's powder room (is that a midwest term? the downstairs bathroom) in his condo in Allston. Red towels, red hand cloths; and I recall there were a few other red things in there but I only recall the things I used I guess.
Its not often you see a single guy with a color coordinated bathroom, but my memory has to do with how it came to be color coordinated.
This was quite a few years ago. I remember Rick telling me that his mom was coming up for a visit and for something fun they were going to go out shopping to decorate the bathroom. It struck me as a nice thing for a mom and son to do together. I had never really spent much one on one time with my mom, and I sensed it was something that both of them must have had alot of fun with.
It was typical Rick - coming up with a fun thing to do with his mom while she was visiting, and yet I wouldn't be surprised if it was Marion who had the idea. Even in the few times we met and other times when we talked briefly on the phone, it was clear that she was a woman in charge; smart, savvy, thoughtful, intelligent, social; and when we spoke she always had a thoughtful question or comment, and was always engaging and interesting.
I can see a lot of her in Rick.
And it may sound strange, but just about every time I went to grab one of those red towels off the rack it struck me - that was nice - Rick's mom and him out shopping to decorate the bathroom.
I don't think I ever asked Rick if 'red' was his choice or his mom's. From the few times I met Marion, my guess is it was her choice (classy, contemporary, bold).
I remember Rick's 40th birthday party. Marion came up for the party and was the big surprise, and she pulled it off beautifully. The room was wall to wall people, and yet Marion flowed through the room like Grace Kelly on the dance floor, mingling and talking with every one of Rick's many friends packed in the room, easily 40 or 50 if not more.
Coming from the midwest I had a certain image of a 'classy lady from New York' that was likely borne of the movies. Marion was that classy lady.
And she was Rick's mom. A mom and son out shopping for red towels, and having one more memory in a lifetime of memories.
Rick, you'll cherish those memories. And you'll still feel her presence. She's smiling down on you guys now. She has alot to be proud of.
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Amy Swift Kurland posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Dear Rick and Kathy,
Our hearts go out to you during this sad time. Though I met your Mom briefly at
your wedding, my memory of her will always be of her being the “Life Line" during the "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire" game at your 50th birthday party. She was such a good sport - receiving a phone call from a large and rather "boisterous" crowd :) - the Luppy sense of humor was clearly evident. I don't remember if she helped you get the correct answer or not :) - but she was the perfect "lifeline" as you have been a loving lifeline to her all these years... Despite her recent illness no doubt she still felt your loving support and cherished your daily phone calls, many visits, and being kept up to date on the happy news of Brian's adventures. May you find strength now in a lifetime of wonderful memories and comfort in your Mom's peace.
With love,
amy
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Kenton and Caroline Smith posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Our hearts are filled with both sadness and thankfulness...sadness at the passing of a great woman, mom, grandma - and thanks for the many years the Lord gave her to see her children and grandchildren grow and for her children to be with her, by her side for when she passed through to heaven.
When I read the news, tears came to my eyes for you Rick, and selfishly, for me because I so much want to be there for you but can't. Know that we will be with you in thought throughout this time of sadness, reflection, and transition.
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Dave Read posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Dear Rick,
We were so sorry to hear of you mom’s passing. I don’t think I’ve seen her for years – maybe the last was at your famous Vermont wedding in 1999 – so I forget how much you resembled her. I do know from our conversations about her from time to time that the last few have been difficult for her. But I’m sure that having a chance to get to know her recent grandson these past 4 years helped with any discomfort. Still, it’s never easy to lose a parent and grandparent. Please know that we are thinking about you and your family as you navigate through this difficult time.
Love,
Dave Read (and Susie and family)
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Ann M. Pieczek posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Rick: I recall talking with your Mom at your 40th birthday party. She seemed like a very special woman and was so very proud of you. You have been a wonderful son to her. She was very lucky to have you. I hope wonderful memories of her help guide you through this intense time of grief. Love, Ann
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meg michaels posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Dear Rick and Kathy,
Thinking of you. Your Mother was a very lovely woman and lucky to have had such a good family. I remember her at your 40th Birthday party. She was such a classy and cultured woman, who stood out as the party was filled with fun, punch cards holes and lots of non classy things.
My thoughts are with you. meg
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Dave Hofferberth posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Marion was a wonderful person and fantastic mother. She will be greatly missed.
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Janice McKeown posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Dear Rick -
My heart goes out to you and your sister and your families. I wonder if that beautiful picture of your Mom is from your wedding because that is just how I remember her. I can only imagine how proud she was of you. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers for these days and months ahead.
With love, Janice
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Chris McKeown posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Rick, Kathy, Brian and all,
My heart goes out to you. I hope this time of sadness will pass quickly, leaving only fond memories and bringing smiles to your faces.
Todd's recollections of Marion rang true, through and through. I was fortunate to have been able visit with Marion on several occasions. But, I'll always remember the first time. I was picking her up at Logan Airport. She came to town because Rick was having emergency surgery. As we drove to the hospital we chatted like old friends, despite having just met.
She was in fact the graceful lady that Todd described. She was also infused with a remarkable energy and spirit. One vivid memory of that first encounter is listening to this lovely woman in her late 70’s express her disappointment that she was going to miss her first hula dancing class. I recall hoping that I’d have that same spirit when I was her age.
Rick - be well. Me and all your friends are here for whatever you need.
Chris
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Susan and Larry Alleva posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
With sincere sympathy on the loss of your Mother. She was a wonderful woman and will be sorely missed.
Love, Susan and Larry
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Lisa McKeown posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Rick and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you find comfort in the fond memories and happy times. Your Mom will be missed.
Love,
Lisa
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jacqueline nolan posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
We send our sincere condolences for the loss of of mother, Rick. We know (without even knowing her) that she must have been an exceptional woman. We send our love and hope that Jackie can attend services - weather permitting. God Bless,
Jeff and Jackie Nolan
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Andy Graham posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Rick,
That is a very nice photo of your mom – it shows the class and personality that Todd spoke of and that I remember. A fun memory I have of her was at your wedding in VT when the lovely Jess and I were “encouraging†her to tell us intriguing details about your childhood trying to find something that you would be embarrassed about. Being the loyal mom that she was, she did not take the bait and maintained that you “were always a good boyâ€.
I am very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing and hope your fond memories of her help you during this difficult period. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Love,
Andy (& Tracy)
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Marc Mugnos posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss of a wonderful lady. My thoughts are with your family during this difficult time.
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Jo-Ann Pacenta posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Karen and Rick,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother. I have fond memories of Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter dinners spent with you and your family. Your mother never failed to remember Lauren at Christmas and she will always have a special place in my heart.
I am keeping you and your families in my thoughts and prayers and wish I could be with you.
Your mother was a very kind and noble woman who leaves behing a beautiful legacy.
My love and sympathy to all at this difficult time.
Jo-Ann Pacenta, Heather and Derek
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Joe McKeown posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Rick,
So sorry for the loss of your Mom. May the fond memory's bring a gleam to your eyes and a smile for many years to come.
You've been a longtime friend to me and my family. We'll all have a good thought for you, Kathy, Brian and the rest of the Luppy clan.
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Glenn Kaplus posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
Dear Rick,
I didn't know your mother well but I do feel as though I have had the good fortune to have a particular perspective to the legacy Marion Luppy has left behind.
Pardon me for embarrasing you for a minute. But Rick, one of her legacies is you. There is a very old saying that "behind every great man there is a great woman". While I'm sure you have shared with her that she got her job done - the evidence is clear. That without your mother, there would not be Rick Luppy, or a man so thoughtful, industrious, appreciated, loved and honored in the world to have an award named after him - "The Luppy Award".
The way I see it, it is actually a pure acknowledgement of her brilliance, dedication, thoughtfulness and her contribution to the world through her family. She leaves behind an amazing loving family. What more could any mother or anyone else for that matter ever want?
My best to you, Kathy and Brian.
Love,
Glenn
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Rick Luppy posted a condolence
Friday, January 11, 2008
WORDS OF REMEMBRANCE GIVEN BY RICK LUPPY, 1/15/08.
Good morning. I’m Richard Luppy, Marion’s son.
The last few years have been tough. Marion’s time at Spring Meadows assisted living and at the Inglemoor nursing home have been somewhat sad and discouraging. But I think that maybe these years were tougher on us then they really were on her. It was difficult for all of us to accept that the vibrant, out-going Marion that we all loved was slowly fading away. But I don’t think that she suffered. And just as during her entire life, she never complained. I was very proud of Marion these past few years. She really didn’t want to give up. She was strong and she did things on her own terms. Marion fought bravely with a willful combination of determination, faith, and, I think, some good ol’ Harth-family stubbornness.
Over the last few days, I’ve heard so many wonderful things said about my mom. She was trusting and loyal, generous, had an easy, out-going personality, and was always the gracious hostess. Simply stated, she was an energetic and lovely woman. But I think that my favorite description of my Mom came from a friend who had met her at our wedding. After talking with Marion for a while he ran into me and said, ya’ know Rick, your Mom is a really classy lady – and ya’ know what else? She’s a good egg. I’ve always liked that compliment. And indeed, Marion was a good egg.
Marion was a caring and attentive mother. Karen and I were brought up as good Catholics, and instilled with I believe are good values and manners. There were a few moments of discipline that were necessary, but in general, she allowed us the freedom to grow up to be independent and to learn by making our own mistakes. Marion pushed us when necessary and guided us as we learned to make the right decisions. Growing up, there was seldom any yelling. In general, it was a calm, happy household. Most importantly, she always made us feel safe.
All through college and after I had moved up to Boston, I could always count on Marion to give me good advice and sage guidance. And it seems my mom was almost always right. Unfortunately, I didn’t realize that until I was about 45 years old.
I probably did not appreciate it much growing up, but I realize now how very fortunate we were. Marion was a good mom. Karen and I could not have asked for more.
Marion was a devoted wife to my father, Arthur. They had a very loving and caring relationship. One of the things that impressed me the most was the way that Marion took such good care of my dad. Arthur had a very debilitating case of Arthritis. His disability prevented them from doing many things and over the years, they had to visit way too many doctors and hospitals. But Marion was always right there by his side to support him. She provided the strength for both of them. And I remember so many times talking to my Mom and I knew that she was just exhausted after yet another trip to the hospital for my dad, but she never complained. She just did what had to be done. And she did it with grace and composure. My Dad was so very fortunate to have Marion for his wife.
Over the years, Marion did a lot of volunteer work: At St Barnabas Hospital, right here at St Rose’s Church and school, Marylawn high school, the Papermill Playhouse, and most recently, at New Eyes for the Needy. But all of this volunteering was really just a prelude to some serious volunteer work --- being a grandmother.
After my dad died, the void left behind was quickly filled by 4 wonderful grandkids: Kim, Katie, KC, and Kris. Marion took such great pride in all of them, watching them grow up, going to all of their sports and activities, and simply being involved in their lives.
And like all grandparents, Marion occasionally just couldn’t resist the temptation to spoil the grandkids. Every year in December my mom and I would share the same joke. Each year, I’d come home to Marion’s house for Christmas, and there was always a huge pile of beautifully wrapped Christmas gifts ready to go under the tree. And I’d joke with her and say, “Mom, do you think maybe you over did it a bit this year?, you said ya’ don’t want to spoil the grandkids†and she’d always joke, “Oh, no, all those gifts are not from me, they’re from Santa Claus.â€
Yup, Marion just loved being a grandmother.
And if having 4 wonderful grandkids was not enough, Marion was blessed yet again when little Brian came along 4 years ago. I’ll never forget the moment that Marion held Brian in her arms for the first time. She cried just a bit, but it was a happy cry. Marion’s grandmotherly love was evident by the expression on her face and the glow in her eyes. With each of Brian’s visits, I could sense that a little connection was being made between grandmother and grandson. And in a way that I can’t really explain, I feel that a part of Marion lives on within Brian. For me, that’s very comforting, but at the same time, it’s also humbling to realize that’s exactly the way that God intended it to be.
And finally, I want to give a special thanks to Emilia for the loving care that she gave to Marion these past 15 months at Inglemoor. Emilia, I’m absolutely certain that Marion is up in Heaven and she’s telling Arthur all about you and how wonderfully you cared for her. You are a treasure. God bless you.
Well, on behalf of my sister Karen, and my uncle Bob, we want to say Thank You to all of the family and friends that have given us support over the last few days. This is not an easy time, but your companionship, your friendship, and your love, have given us a tremendous boost. Your presence here today makes more of a difference than you can imagine. Thank you to everyone.
So. . . we love you mom, we’ll miss you, but we know that you’re safe and secure in God’s hands. You’re a classy lady, and you’re a good egg.
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