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James, Rhea, Bryce, Nolan & Aaron Williams posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Her memory will forever be remembered by her vibrant personality and incredible spirit. She will always be in our mind and spirit as we live our remaining days to the fullest. We will see her again in a place that is much greater that we can even imagine. All our love.
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Gloria Dillard Davis posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To The Essoka Familiy,
Growing up, Ndome was like our daughter, in & out of our home, just as Kiana was to your family. My heart is broken, my spirit shaken, & my soul is in mourning with you Gloria, Modi & family. But each day a light shines. That light is Ndome shining through Amadie & Sayje. We will never forget Ndome, always in our hearts, forever in her children. GOD BLESS
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Museng ESSOKA posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Hi Ndo,
You were someone special, especially when you were just a little girl, not afraid to express your feelings to anyone. You are gone, for your work on this earth is done. Good a thing you left behind Ndolo and my dear brother Mukudi. I wish I could have been there but the long distance made it impossible for some of us back home to be present. You fought a good fight.
You will be missed by all of us and please look down on your children and parents, especially Moh, and give them the courage to bear the grief while remembering you with all the love you left in their hearts.
GOOD NIGHT MY DEAR COUSIN and perfect PEACE !!!
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Essoka N Ndome posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Wééh Ndome Lynnette ESSOKA
On july 30th 2007, Iwas informed you had died. Up till now, I find it very hard to beleive.
My mbombo "Ndo" as our name is sometimes shortened; to me, you are alive; for true part of a person is the one that dies and lives.
I know when your path was dark, God walked close by your side, guided your every wondering step, and led you with the tenderest care
I miss you so much dearest daughter
You were so strong, loving and caring. I do not need to understand where you have gone to, because I know you are being comforted and warmed with God's LOVE.
BE AT PEACE
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Gloria Essoka posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Lynnette:
It's been more than 6 years since your death but the sadness and pain have not diminished. I think of you every day, many, many times at different times in your life and in many situtations. Anyone who talks to me about you always mentions your beautiful smile, bubbly personality, devotion to your children and willingness to work hard for what you wanted. Memories,happy, sad and otherwise, flood into my mind without warning. I look at your picture every day, your beautiful smile and radiance. Who would have thought that you would be taken away from your children and family? Better it should have me who has lived long enough. I grieve for Sayje and Amadi for whom you are a vague memory, your father,talks about you every day and fell apart for a long time after you died. I guess you were the glue that held Jonathan and Yulanda close to us; it is no more and only adds to our sorrow. Rest in peace , dear daughter. I will never forget you.
Love, your mother.
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Tracy Hollander posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Mr.and Mrs.Essoka,
I was so shaken when I heard of the news of Ndome's passing. Flashes of her lugging that chello to school, and of those great slumber parties with Mr. Essoka's amazing stories went before my eyes. While I can't remember the last time I actually saw her, the sound of her laughter is as clear as day to me.
Please accept my condolences, and pass them along to Jonathon and Ndome's family. My heart is with you all.
Tracy Hollander
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meredith Welsch posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Ndome and i grew up together in south orange, we were child hood friends and neighbors and i am deeply saddened to here the news of her early passing. My heart goes out to her family and friends.
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Jennifer (Colameco) Fowler posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family:
I'm not sure if you remember me . . . ., but I spent almost every summer with Ndome at Sheppard's Mill Camp. Some of my best childhood, summer memories include her. I was in the process of searching for old camp friends, as it's been more than 20 years since seeing everyone, and was so shocked and upset to come across this news. I never had the privilege of meeting her children, but my heart goes out to them. Although it's now been a year since she passed, I don't imagine it gets any easier. My sincerest sympathy to you and your family.
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Presbytery of Newark posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Modi and Family,
On behalf of Newark Presbytery, we stand with your entire family in tribute to Ndome's life. We offer our hopeful prayers and special love to her children. May God grant you all you need in Jesus' name. -Dr. Kevin Yoho, General Presbyter
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Barbara Duggan posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Condolences to Ndome's family. I will always remember her beautiful smile.
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Brenda Petersen posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
My prayers are with Ndome's family for strength and peace. May God hear these prayers in Jesus name I pray.
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Hillary Hopkins posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To Mr & Mrs. Essoka, Jonathan ( my best friend), Yulanda, and extended family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. I am humbled and honored to call you my family in Christ. Ndome, my sister and dearest friend, this day, I know you are with Christ in paradise.
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audrey & maddy martorana posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Amadi & Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your mom, who loved you so much. Maddy sends you hugs, and hopes your wonderful memories fill your heart:)
With warm wishes and deepest sympathy,
audrey & maddy martorana
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Phyllis Hansell posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Gloria and Modi,
Ndome was a vibrant and beautiful young woman. I have known her since she was a little girl, and Ndome shined as brightly as possible and will contine to shine as a star in heaven. Words cannot express the heart-felt sympathy that I feel for all of the Essoka family. With love, Phyllis
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David Fong posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
I had the pleasure of growing up with Ndome being Jonathan's friend & being over at the Essoka's bright yellow home on Grove Rd. just about every morning growing up & walking "Durr-avis". Her smile and way she didn't take mess from her older brother were always a pleasure. I still remember being tears laughing at Mr. Essoka's "Adrian Dantley" impression, and being a proud 'almost' older sibling seeing her in her prom dress. You will always live in our hearts and memories.
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Paul & Tricia Mitchell & Family posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you.
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Sean Flood posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To Mr. & Mrs. Essoka and Jonathan,
My sister Katie and I had the pleasure of growing up in South Orange and spending afternoons -with Ndome and Jonathan, at your home across from Grove Park, the pool, Community Center, etc...
Some of our fondest memories include Ndome and the rest of your welcoming family.
Our condolences and prayers are with you. God Bless.
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Sally & Tanisha Barksdale and Evelyn Bilal posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Gloria & Modi
Our deepest condolences are with you and your family.
May the many memories help you through this difficult time.
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Andra Bell posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To The Essoka Family,
What a joy and pleasure it was to have known Ndome. It is impossible to think of her and the children without smiling. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God's love support and sustain you.
The Bell Family of Westwood, NJ
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Katie Flood posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
My youngets and fondest memories are of Ndome....."my first, best friend." My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Essoka family.
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Sylvia Koroneos posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To Sayje and family, A mother's love lives on in your heart forever. May her memory be eternal and may God's love bring you comfort and peace.
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy.
Your teacher, Mrs. S. Koroneos
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Deborah D. Bethea posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the family,
Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. I was saddened to learn of the loss of Ndome. She was a beautiful person who could come in and not only light up a room but command it as well. She will definitely be missed. Remember to cast your cares on him because he cares for you and there is nothing to hard for our God. Look to the hills from whence cometh your help because your help will come from the Lord. He promised not to leave you nor forsake you and he will bring you through this sad time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Our God is a keeper and may he keep you in perfect peace. Sincerely, Deborah, Departmental Sec't., Fred Cohen Cancer Center, N.B.I.M.C.
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Wesley Henderson posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Mr & Mrs. Essoka,
There are so many things I want to say, but I think the simplest thing to say is that I love you both!
Your other son!
Wes
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Kelly & Gaby Volcy posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Amadi, Sayje and family,
Our prayers are with you. Know in your hearts that you are loved.
God Bless.
Kelly & Gaby
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Mr. James A. Dillard posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family;
As your neighbor in South Orange, I watched your daughter and mine grow into beautiful strong black women and embrace motherhood.
My heart and continued prayers go out to the family for your lost.
God bless and be strong.
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Sheila and Charles Perruzzi posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Jon,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that Mr. Perruzzi and I are holding you and your family in our prayers.
Sheila Perruzzi (CJ's mother and father)
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Gail and Frank Curry posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
We are deeply sadded by your loss, and we want you to know that our thoughts will be with you during the days and weeks ahead
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The Colaluca Family posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Amadi, Sayje and family,
"Special people touch our lives in everything they do and leave us changed forever.
The gifts they gave us can become a part of who we are...a legacy of beauty that lives on."
We were touched by Ndome's energy, smile and infinite love for her family and friends. You are all in our prayers and thoughts.
With deepest sympathy,
Chloe Colaluca (Amadi's classmate)and her family
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Arthur & Tina Taylor posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Gloria & Modi,
Please know that our most sincere condolences are with you and your family during this tragic time and always.
Sincerely,
Arthur, Sr, Tina, Arthur, Jr.(Teke) and Anthony (Bean) Taylor
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Liesel Hall Turner posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Jonathan and Yulanda,
My condolences on the loss of your sister. My thoughts are with you. May the memories of Ndome console you and bring a smile to mind during this time of sorrow.
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The Spraggins Family posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted" (Matt5:4). May you find some comfort in knowing that God is watching over and will be with you during this difficult time. We watched our daughters grow up together from birthday parties to sunday school at Prospect. May these precious memories soothe you during the times when it seems hard to bear. We will continue to lift you up in prayer. Your family is in our hearts and thoughts. A beautiful bright light is shining in Heaven for its newest angel.
Stu, Jean and Renee
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Tracy (Labat) Porter posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Jonathan –
Effervescent. Bubbly. Those were the first words that came to mind when my husband asked me about Ndomi. The memory of meeting Ndomi for the first time has stayed with me because I had always considered you to be so laid back and here was this mini version of you bouncing around and talking non-stop. Someone else said it already, but I can’t help smiling when I think of her and I was blessed to have known her.
My thoughts are with you. Please extend my deepest sympathies to your family.
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MR. MILLS posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL MEMBERS OF THE ESSOKA FAMILY. LET US PRAY FOR THE CHILDREN, THAT GOD WILL GIVE THEM PEACE. LOVE YOU ALL.
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Jeff Rivers posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family,
I had the pleasure going to school with Ndome since Mashall School. The Rivers family would like to extend out deepest condolences and prayers to your family.
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Jeff Rivers posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family,
I had the pleasure going to school with Ndome since Mashall School. The Rivers family would like to extend our deepest condolences and prayers to your family.
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Tammie Hamilton posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
What I will remember the most about Ndome is her smile and how happy she was to pick up Amadi at the end of the school day.
May god bless Ndome's family
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D.R. Miller posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family:
May the following scripturs bring you comfort: Isaiah 25:8; Revelations 21:5.
With sympathy:
D.R. Miller
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Marlene Hopkins posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
MR.& MRS. ESSOKA , WE HAVE NOT HAD THE PRIVILEDGE OF PHYSICALLY MEETING YOU , BUT WE HAVE BEEN BLEST BY MEETING YOUR TWO BEAUTIFUL OFF-SPRINGS THROUGH OUR CHILDREN , HILLARY & SHAWNA HOPKINS .
"GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE...COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN, AND WISDOM TO THE KNOW THE DIFFERENCE ."
YOUR NAMES ARE CALLED IN OUR PRAYERS...
REV.HENRY & MARLENE HOPKINS
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Andrea Johnson posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Amadi and Family,
I am very sorry about the passing of your mom and loved one. Know that she is gone home to be with Jesus. Your Jaguar family is there for you and we hope to see you soon. I am sorry that I will not be able to attend her homegoing as I am out of town. Please know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Coach Andrea Johnson
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D. Smith posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Our condelences to Amadi and her family. We are very sorry to hear about your mother. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Your Jaguar track mate, Ayaana Smith and Family
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Anika McKessey posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Jonathan, Yulanda and Family,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. God Bless.
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Doreen Mettle posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To Ndome's Family,
My prayers and condolences to the
family and the children.
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bill fong posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
my thoughts and prayers for your loss.
we all miss her dearly
bill(will), takako, kenny and bradley fong
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Karen Golding posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this most difficult time. We have many fond memories of our days at Grove Park and growing up together in South Orange.
We are certain you have a lifetime of wonderful memories of Ndome that you will forever cherish in your hearts and passionately share with her beautiful angels.
With Deepest Sympathy - Karen Golding and family.
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McCombs posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
The McCombs Family
send our prayers to your family!!!!
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G. Brown and P. Hannon posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Kevin, Sayje and Amadi
We are so, so sorry for your loss. Please hug, love and lean on each other. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Jaguar Parent and Runner
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Jessica Berenter posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
I have such wonderful memories of my friend Ndome we became best buddies in Junior high at south orange middle. Ndome will forever in my mind and heart be witty, kind, smart loving and a free spirit. To her family please accept my deepest condolence's. I am sad I had lost contact with Ndome over the years, and feel even worse to hear of the tragic loss of Ndome
Jessica Berenter-London
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Audrey Godwin (and Family) posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Amadi and Family,
We're sorry to hear about the loss of your mother/wife. But keep in your mind how much fun she was. That will make you less sad maybe. It must be really hard for you. But remember you still have family and friends to keep you safe and love you. Including us.
Your friend(s),
Audrey and family
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Joan Flood posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Gloria,Modi & Jonathan,
My heart aches for all of you but as you know it is your faith which will somehow get you through this. I remember Ndome as a beautiful, bubbly 4 yr old with big brown eyes and a contagious laugh - and obviously she grew into a lovely woman. Although I have not met them, please extend my condolences to her children and tell them that they are with you in our family's thoughts and prayers.
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SHARON WILSON posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
My heart goes out to the entire Essoka family. Ndome was a very special daughter, sister, and mother. May she rest peacefully for eternity.
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Iola Francis McCloud posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
The Essoka Family:
My heart and soul weeps for this incredible loss of your daughter. I cannot imagine going on, but God will give you strength and your faith will deliver you whole.
I do not know if you remember me, I met you through Gloria and Doug. I am the Black social worker with white/grey hair. My daughter was a friend of your daughter and son, her name is Ischare.
My love and prayers are with you. Lov Iola.
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Kathleen Nokes posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Although I didn't know you well, I always remember your smile and your willingness to help. When your mother was in Malawi, you were always a source of information and you could tell that you were so proud of the work that your mother was doing. Please continue to smile down on your family - they need your assurance and commitment right now and always.
Kathleen M. Nokes, PhD,RN,FAAN
Hunter nursing faculty
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Chrystel Williams posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family,
Rest easy knowing that the arms of God are wrapped around Ndome. Also know that his arms of comfort are wrapped around you and he will not leave you. We will continue to keep you in our hearts and our prayers. Love The Williams Family
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david o. corzen posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
my dear sister and brother in law. at this time i would like to convey my sincerest condolences from janie and myself for the loss of your daughter and my young neice ndome. as you know i suffered the loss of my wife juanita in january this year and am still greiving her loss as well. i wish for you great strength in this time of sorrow and i am here for you and mo if need be.
love from your brother,
david
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Joanna & Eddy Hofmann posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Gloria and Modi,
God's hands surround Ndome. We love you both.
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Janie Jones posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family,
Ndome is not alone and neither are you. Wishing you and your family strength and peace. God and time will soften the edges and ease your pain. Words don't always help so I'm sending blessings and loving thoughts. Janie
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Annie Schiffer and family posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Amadi, Sayje, Kevin and family,
We will always remember Ndome's beautiful smile and easy laugh. We feel fortunate to have known Ndome and feel certain that her spirit will live on in you, Sayje and Amadi, and will bring you strength and joy in life.
With deepest sympathy,
Annie Schiffer and family
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The Fisher Family posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Dear Kevin, Amadi, and Sayje,
I am so, so sorry to hear about Ndome passing. I had been trying to get in touch with her for quite some time, but to no avail. I will be trying to get in touch with you to see about the children. You are not alone; we share your loss. I wish you and the kids all the best. Her spirit still lives on in all of us.
Sincerely,
Abena, Chris, Mirembe, and Nalima
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Chinazo ECHEZONA-JOHNSON posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
AN EXCELLENT NURSE AND CO-WORKER. MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE.
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Beverly Gaskins posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essokas & Lasenberry's,
Ndome was my friend. She made me laugh all the time with her down to earth humor. She helped me with my children and listened during the tough times. We had some crazy times too. Just being silly. She was a product of her parents. You all are a gift in a life. You always have made me feel like family even though I was usually the tallest person in your home at the time unless Chuck was there (laughing) Thank you for the time you invested in Ndome. Thank you for encouraging her to be such a good friend.
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Esther Onaro posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Amadi and Sayje,
I still cannot believe that your mom, Ndome, is no longer with us! I hope that you know and feel that you were her whole world and that you were wanted and dearly loved by her. She did her very best to give you diverse experiences and to teach you character virtues so that you are well grounded for life. She did an excellent job!
Although I know you miss your mom very much, try to remember the fun, vacations, and lessons she taught you; in this way you will keep her memory alive and in your heart she will live forever.
Ndome’s bubbly personality and her way of flitting about like a butterfly from place to place will be remembered by all of us who knew and loved her. Personally, I will treasure the many presents she gave me over the years.
Amadi and Sayje, I want you to know that I loved your mom and I also love you and your family.
Auntie Esther
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The Anthony Biney-Amissah Family posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
To the Essoka Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May god bless you.
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Tammie Francisque posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
No words can truly express how much I miss my friend, Ndome. Since I know she's looking down on me, smiling that big smile and seeing how much we all love her, I take comfort that she knows I miss her and that she will live on in us all. I will never forget you Dome!!!! I love you.
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Tawya Young posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Ndome has an inspiring spirit that I know will live on in our memories of her, for something that remarkable can not be destroyed. My experience of her is a woman who was focused and "didn't allow the grass to grow under her feet!" I had the pleasure of sharing with her our common experience of becoming homeowners and "holding it down" despite life's adversities. What really impressed me most about Ndome was her steadfast devotion to her children. She was an awesome mother determined to give her children all that she could to help them grow through this life. I feel blessed that my life has been touched and enlightened by the beautiful spirit of Ndome.
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Terri White posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
As a friend and co-worker of Jonathan, I met his sister Ndome only once at a summer barbecue. What I remember most is Ndome's beautiful smile and her witty sense of humor. I met Sayje and Amadi, too, and sensed immediately Ndome's strength as a Mother. I admired the loving and nurturing way in which she interacted with her children. Sayje and Amadi have visited their Uncle Johnnie at work on many occasions, and I and others enjoy their sweetness and innocent maturity. Ndome has brought more GOOD into the world through her life and through two wonderful gifts she leaves for us -- Sayje and Amadi. For that, we all should be thankful.
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Carrol Barnes Bascus posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Ndome,
I will always remember your beautiful wide smile that lit up your face and made everyone around you feel good. God blessed us with your presence in our lives even though it was too short of a time. Thank you for sharing your wonderful spirit with us.
Peace and Blessings,
Carrol and Daryl Bascus
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Audrey Dean posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Ndome was a lovely person, in spirit and with a warm, engaging personality that drew people to her.
I'm happy that I had a chance to know her and hope that she is at peace now.
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Audrey Dean posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Ndome was a lovely person, in spirit and with a warm, engaging personality that drew people to her.
I'm happy that I had a chance to know her and hope that she is at peace now.
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Linda Watson posted a condolence
Monday, July 30, 2007
Although I only meet Ndome once, I can honestly say she left a very happy impression of herself on me. I met Ndome at my dear friends John's house and we all spent an evening full of laughter and fun. I've always been impressed by those who can make your heart smile on first impression. Remember this about your Mom.
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