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Frank And Maura Mastro posted a condolence
Saturday, May 9, 2020
So saddened to hear of the passing of Howard. My wife and I worked together on the same bill once with him and we hit it off. I think everyone hit it off with Howard. He was that kind of man. After that it was phone conversations. He had such kind and generous spirit. Sure, he was funny. And yes he had a strong act. But it is Howard the person that left us with a lasting impression of goodness and that is who we will remember.
God Bless the entire family as they go through this sad time
Frank and Maura Mastro
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Michael Blaine lit a candle
Thursday, April 9, 2020
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Howard made the world a better place. Always pleasant and full of wonderful memories to share.
Rest in peace, my friend!
Michael Blaine
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Tuesday, March 3, 2020
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I'm so saddened to hear about Howard's passing - sending my condolences to the whole family. He was the kindest man with such a positive outlook in life, filled with immense love for his family and for the people around him.
I will forever cherish my time interning for FCE and getting to know him. Especially the lunch breaks, where I had the honor to hear stories from his life - and what a life he lived!
He will be greatly missed.
Love,
Anni Ditta
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Bobby Arvon posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 19, 2020
Howard and I performed on a show at the Showboat Atlantic city a wonderful man and an excellent comic I always enjoyed our fun time together. God bless and condolences to all the family.
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Julie Budd posted a condolence
Friday, February 14, 2020
I'm So sorry to hear about Howard's passing.
It is the end of an era.. & to a very very special man.
May The Almighty Bless Howard Forever.
And May Howard Rest In Peace.
With My Heartfelt thoughts & Condolences.
JULIE BUDD
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Lynn Starr lit a candle
Friday, February 14, 2020
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In memory of a wonderful talent who gave me a chance. Forever grateful! You will be missed, my friend.
David Knight lit a candle
Friday, February 14, 2020
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I only spoke to Howard a few times over the phone. However, he was very kind to me and introduced me to his son who got my wife and I one of our favorite gigs ever. It was awesome to hear Jr. speak of Sr. so glowingly and lovingly. He seemed like an amazing man. Thank you for sharing your light and love with so many. Rest in peace.
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Brian Sheil posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 4, 2020
I am very sorry to hear of Howard‘s passing he was a wonderful guy he was a true inspiration we are sending you all of our love , He taught us a lot about how someone can make a living in this crazy business that we are in. He will be missed by many.
Love,
Brian Sheil, Susana Sheil
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Meredith Farnam lit a candle
Tuesday, February 4, 2020
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We were so sad to hear about Mr. Beder. We remember him fondly and really enjoyed him. What a wonderful life he lived with his beautiful family. You all truly share such a special bond. May all of your cherished memories bring you peace and comfort at this very difficult time and always. With our deepest sympathy, Meredith Farnam and Eddie Leyton
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Leon Etienne lit a candle
Monday, February 3, 2020
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Howard Sr. gave me one of my very first big breaks when I needed it most. He believed in me. He saw something in me I didn't at the time. He was always quick with a story that would blow an young entertainers mind. He always had time for a quick joke and a smile. RIP Howard Sr. Meet up with my Dad and tell him a good joke. Thank you for believing in me.
-Leon Etienne
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John Timpanelli lit a candle
Monday, February 3, 2020
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Howard was such a kind man who was my personal manager years ago. I am so sorry to hear this and may he Rest In Peace and sending condolences to his family.
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Juliana Trovato posted a condolence
Monday, February 3, 2020
My deepest condolences to your family
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Barbara Trainor posted a condolence
Monday, February 3, 2020
I so wanted to pay my respects to Howard today but was not possible but I will see you tomorrow. Howard was married to my cousin and has been in the family a long time, His Love and Smile will be missed forever, My Love and Prayers are with his family Chickie, Howard, Kim, Tracy and their familys Today and For A Long Time. You will be missed Howard
Love
Bobbie ( Barbara Trainor )
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Neil Sedaka posted a condolence
Monday, February 3, 2020
I was so sorry to hear of Howard's passing. Howard and I go back many years to when he was an opening act for me. I fondly remember these times. Leba and I send our heartfelt sympathy to Elizabeth, Howard's children, grandchildren and all those whose lives he touched and made better with laughter.
- Neil Sedaka
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Nick Bomleny lit a candle
Monday, February 3, 2020
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My condolences and prayers - sorry for your loss.
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Jerry Castaldo lit a candle
Monday, February 3, 2020
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My deepest condolences to Howard's family, friends and colleagues. I remember him being so kind and encouraging to me way back when I was first starting out with my career.
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Fred Pierce posted a condolence
Monday, February 3, 2020
While I only met Howard in the past couple of years, I found his smile to contain hints of his former self. His grin was so gleeful, I wish I could have known him in his prime. I am sure he has everyone laughing in heaven.
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Erika Vapenik lit a candle
Monday, February 3, 2020
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Dear Liz, Kim, Tracy and Howard,
I was so sorry to hear from Michael that your Husband/Father passed away. My heartfelt sympathies to you and the family as you go through this difficult time. Howard led an incredible life and helped raise 3 great children. Unfortunately, I am still recovering myself so I will not be able to attend the wake or the service but please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Howard is in his place in heaven and looking over the entire family. May your memories and those of the entire family live on for eternity.
I have made a donation in Howard's name to the American Cancer Society.
May Howard Rest In Peace.
Love Erika Vapenik
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Howie Poret posted a condolence
Sunday, February 2, 2020
Although it has been 40 plus years since I’ve seen the Beder’s , Howie Beder was an inspiration too me when I was growing up ! He was one of my Dad’s best friends, and the Beder’s lived in my family’s building in Bay Ridge , Brooklyn! Even though I was in my early teens , he never made me feel like a kid ! I would hang out with him and my Dad , and he made me feel like I was a friend , not a kid ! We went on family vacations to Jamaica ,where he was the Entertainer at the Playboy Club ,and it was awesome! There is a lot of water under the Bridge, but some people leave a mark on you , and that was HOWIE BEDER!
R.I.P.my friend !
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Kally Zacharos posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, February 2, 2020
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I was deeply saddened when I heard the bad news I have been friends with Howard since high school. We also use to double date and go out together with our girlfriends (our wives now) many years ago. I still remember the fun we had in the "Green Tea Room" with all of our friends. Even though we live miles apart we always spoke to each other by telephone every few months to see what was happening. We surely are gong to miss you my friend, but we will NTVER FORGET YOU...……..Chris and Kally Zacharos
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Saturday, February 1, 2020
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Sending healing prayers and comforting thoughts, as you remember your loved one. Wishing your family peace and comfort.
With Sincere Condolences,
Freeholder VP Wayne Richardson
Essex County
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973-762-2200 (Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home)
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